Being Single.

Being Single means not being double. no. I'm kidding. I'm not gonna talk about how many ice cream scoop you had or badminton. IM GOING TO TALK ABOUT BEING SINGLE.  actually, the benefits of being single, when you're 20 years old.

so, let's start.     

disclaimer: I didn't intend to persuade you that you have to be single. it is your choice *cheers*

1. You're saving your time

           In your twenties, esp. 20 yo, i think you're supposed to study and finding your passion through your hobbies, opportunities, etc. Because, when you're in a relationship you clearly wasting your time by being in a relationship which you know will end up the same... break up. why I said this, ok let me explain. In your twenties, most of us are not interested in any kind of serious relationship, we're still young enough to think about marriage and so on. well, this is only my opinion because ME doesn't have any plan get married soon... cause I need to graduate first and looking for a job also build my life and career and house and... make money. And being single, means you're saving your time cause you can do your thing.

2. You're saving your money

          Well, when you're in a relationship you'll definitely go out for a date, to a mall, to a restaurant, to everywhere that can costs you a little bit. You buy things for your special one, you might treat them as well, you might give them something special that costs you not so little. (when you're talking about money, errr is a lil bit sensitive). So, instead of giving someone else gift, why don't you give to yourself? you should know, that I am really frugal with the thing called money so you might guess being single in 20 yo is a good thing for me. The other reason is, that I'm living far away from my family and my home, I need to buy things and manage money for myself. SO, I HAVE to save money. I also have to save money for traveling, buy books, and buy skincare (skincare are expensive smh). 

3. You're saving your energy

        I've seen a lot of my friends who are in a relationship, having quarrels then they cried, angry, and sometimes do stupid things. well, I do not want to waste my time for that in my 20. Even though, I know being in a relationship doesn't mean you're always having quarrels with your boyfriend/girlfriend. But, let's look at the worst possibility. But, if you're happy with that, it is your choice *cheers*

       Maybe, some of you might think that I am ignorant or cocky or stupid or... maybe beautiful? no, I'm kidding. I am writing this to clarify that being single is okay, esp. when you are 20 yo. when you're single, doesn't mean that you're ugly, underserved, stupid, and nobody loves you. it is okay to be single, and it is also okay if you're in a relationship. okay listen, i am not trying to be hypocritical, but i also need someone and it does not rule out the possibility that I can also have a relationship with someone. However, i looked out on my purposes again on my age now. I still have some responsibility to do and to be resolved (bcs if not, i may make my parents disappointed, and I won't let that happen). After that, i can do everything i want, right? 

       Once again, it is your choice. you make your own choice. you live your life. you know what is good for you. Bear in mind, a good thing takes time. There will be a time for you to be happy. Everything has its time, right?

  

Remember, you have to dream big to get big.

-Arnold's father (Sherman Alexie)