blunder: part of someone's existence

you are not going to lie, everyone who has been or currently floating on Social Media surely heard about the availability of blunders. 

at first, I mistook the blunder as a chummy form of a blender. however, the reality is further than that.

I caught this word when I first started joining Social Media activities. I thought it was just a typical Social Media Dictionary that you could use if you wanted to look cool and smart or we called it a pseudo-intellectual. I did not try to use it cause I basically did not understand.

as time goes by and we are surrounded by a varied-dynamic society & circumstances, I begin to realize that is just basically part of a human's existence. the levels differ, depending on context, but mostly it is going to be the worst form of an embarrassing fallacy. Which, can appear at unpredictable times resulting in immeasurable moments. The funny thing that I've realized, committing an inadvertent blunder could also exhibit the authentic part of the self.

prior to my existence in a constantly changing state of affairs, this might happened mostly in a political or comedic statement on TV or in newspapers. With what happened back then, those might seemed detrimental and.. apprehensive. I mean, the effect afterward. You cannot just massively alter someone's perception of you in a flash. it takes time or.. never. 

You can't take words back once it released from your mouth, someone said.

as we enter a leading-edge era, social media activity will be at the forefront of every occurrence. 

expressing non-sense ideas?

update on the newest release album?

give a hint to your crush?

want to make cupcakes but don't know how?

looking for reviews before going to a restaurant?

etc.

more than 5 types of Social Media you can match up with your needs!

diving on social networking sites is a perilous act. full of risk. full of danger. full of things you barely know about. full of things you maybe should not contain at a specific time. you need conscious knowledge and sanity. not saying everything is harmful, but it is better to prevent than cure. right? being worried is fine, just make it a little bit calculated not exaggerated (based on experience).

taking sides or expressing opinions is very normal, but you have to realize that, there are 4.8 billion social media users worldwide, representing 59.9% of the global population and 92.7% of all internet users*. Imagine how many different heads compel each other with dissimilar interests or POVs? How many evoked arguments come up? well, not always bad, but I'm scared of the worst possibility, cause if it is going to be a good output then we don't need to be ready but delightful.

when the arguments happen, that is where most blunder happens as well. 

you fight when you are irked. we know we are hot, but not THAT hot you know. your blood goes up and you tend to have a quick judgment or decision when you cannot think properly. That is when you are prone to miscalculate your act. if you are not careful enough, you may bark up the wrong trees. Weeping over afterward may result in nothing, cause nothing may change. most of the time, you were just exposed yourself. and you can hardly shift that.

what if we already committed that? 

everyone has, chill. just on different levels though.

Something happens for a reason, as someone said.

maybe you were destined to experience that so that you have/will have a different perspective on something? meeting new people? join new parties with the same interest? getting a new job? living in a new city?

how do prevent that?

nothing. it's just part of yours. your existence. The best way to do this is to be cool-headed. just calm and .. be conscious. Compos Mentis.

good luck everyone. Life is not like riding a car in F1 lane (smooth af!). you may have gone through unpleasant things. but you will go through pleasant things as well.

everything is temporary. chill.

*https://www.searchenginejournal.com/social-media statistics/480507/#:~:text=1.,increase%20year%2Dover%2Dyear.