why you always think that your friend is better than you

there is one proverb in my country, it said rumput tetangga lebih hijau if it is translated to English, it would become "Neighbor's grass is greener" but it actually mean that what people have is always better than ours. and the thing i am thinking about now, is always think that i am worse than people around a.k.a my friend. however, i am very grateful having a lot of clever, intellectual, smart friends. seriously, being friends with them is motivated me a lot to do things and learn but making me feel bad at the same time. when they talk about things i don't know, it is bad seriously. when they advising me or answer my question i feel so happy. is it bad? idk. so now the thing that i have to do learning learning learning. learning about what? learning what i love, what i feel passionate about whenever learn it. every person in this world has their own ability and capability. the key is do not compare yourself the other person even if it is your friend. it is Okay to see them as motivation but do not compare too much until you feel yourself nothing. hey, keep going, you'll get through it. everyone has their own struggles. if we see our friend is being number one in everything they do not get it miraculously in one night. but they went through the process which is if we want to be the best, we should feel and go through the process and it is not always smooth.
bye, keep going almi.

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